Did you see Glee this week? It was the much-anticipated Michael Jackson episode – and it was pretty darn good! The part of the show I’m focusing on is not MJ, however, but a conversation that took place between Kurt and his dad Bert. Bert is one of my favorite characters because his advice and relationship with his gay son is never what one would expect given his tough, mechanic exterior. During this episode he brought Kurt the good news that he had been short-listed for admission into his college of choice. Bert said to his son something like: “This will be one of the moments that changes the course of your life and you will remember it forever.”
It got me thinking about the power of single moments in life. Can one moment, one action, one exchange, one event really change the course of our lives? You bet. And the cool thing is that these moments often aren’t what we think they might be. Sure getting married, or divorced, or having a baby, experiencing a death are all life-changing events – but so are “smaller,” seemingly less significant events.
In the spirit of Glee, a single moment that changed my life was when I discovered that I had made it into my high school’s show choir. Even now, many years later, I see this as a pivotal moment in my life. It shaped my high school experience, provided me with friends I count among my closest to this day, and – perhaps most importantly – gave me the confidence to do lots of other things in life.
The other cool thing about single moments that change our lives is that they are fun to look back on and reminisce about. It can even be entertaining to play the “what-if” game (i.e., what if I never would have made the choir and gone out for volleyball instead?).
What are some of moments that have changed the course of your life?