Welcome to Moms’ Month on Dr. Stephanie! This month I will be featuring guest posts from some awesome moms around the country. They will be sharing tips, tricks, and funny stories about motherhood. This will be a fun celebration – thanks for joining us! Today’s author is Caroline Moore.
I am the mother of two daughters who are 10 years apart so in essence I had 2 “only” children. I am an Occupational Therapist and have always worked part-time until my very recent retirement. Although working part-time, I often felt I didn’t do the best job at either being a mother or a therapist, I wouldn’t have had it any other way. I feel very fortunate that both my daughters live nearby and they and my 3 adorable grandchildren are a very important part of my life.
I really feel that my life began when I became a mother 37 years ago. It has given me the most profound joys as well as the deepest pain but has made my life so full and rewarding.
The one tip I would pass on to others is that when your child faces tough times (in childhood, teenage years, adulthood), it’s best to communicate your love, support, and encouragement in various ways, even though it would be easier to stay away, take on the problem yourself, lecture, cry, or blame others. Communication can be as simple as a hug, pat on the shoulder, supportive phone message, invitation to take a walk, or a shopping outing, or even just sit next to your struggling child. Just knowing you are there in support of your child can help. You can’t and shouldn’t solve your child’s problems but you can give them the strength they need to face the issues themselves.