Lent started last week, so I’m a little behind the ball, but I wanted to write a quick post about it anyway.Â For those who don’t know, Lent is a period in the Christian calendar between Ash Wednesday and Easter (40 days excluding Sundays, to be exact).Â Â I’m not an expert in theology or religion, so I’m not going to talk about the religious significance of Lent.Â But as a mental health expert, I am going to focus on the practice of “giving something up” for Lent.
Whether you are religious or not, Lent is the perfect time to take a look at our lives and make some adjustments.
Hereâ€™s the deal: Most of us think about how we want to live healthier, more frugally, more whatever around the 1st of the year.Â We turn these vague notions about healthier living into New Yearâ€™s resolutions â€“ even though we know they probably wonâ€™t stick.Â Do you even remember yours?Â New Yearâ€™s resolutions donâ€™t typically work because:
- They are often too vague and general â€“ i.e., â€œeat healthierâ€ or â€œsave moreâ€
- There is no specific time frame â€“ the entirety of 2016 is just too broad
- They are made on the heels of what is often the most indulgent time of the year â€“ â€œYou mean I canâ€™t eat dessert after breakfast, lunch and dinner?â€ or â€œI really have to go back to work?â€ â€“ The drastic change is just too much
But Lent gives us the perfect situation in which to make changes to our lives:
- The things we â€œgive upâ€ are typically really specific â€“ i.e., soda pop, Facebook or frozen yogurt (yes, these are all things I have given up over the years)
- The 40+ day time frame is perfect for successful behavior change: Itâ€™s not so long that it drags out, but it is long enough to form new habits and routines
- It comes at a great time of year when there isnâ€™t much else going on â€“ not too many distractions
What are you giving up this year?