Good role models are hard to come by. TV news, print media, and the internet are filled with stories of people making bad decisions, acting selfishly, and treating others poorly. It can get downright depressing watching all this bad behavior. It makes me wonder who my kids might look up to as they grow up. Are there any “good” people out there anymore?
The answer is yes. There are plenty. In fact, there are probably many more kind, giving people in the world than there are nasty ones – we just don’t hear about them much. So I’ve tried to come up with several of my favorite make-me-happy, positive-role-model type folks. Here are a few:
Ron Weasley. Ok, so he’s not a “real” person – but a good role model nonetheless. Sure, his BFF Harry Potter was the easy pick, but Ron’s the one I really like. He’s less popular than Harry, not as smart, rich, or athletic, but he is a true and constant friend. He has a sort of stick-to-it-iveness that I admire, and he isn’t above admitting his mistakes. On top of all that, he gets the girl in the end.
The Cast of Glee. All my regular readers know that I am a HUGE gleek. One of the reasons I like the show is its unabashed enthusiasm and happiness. Could a show choir really be a show choir without those qualities? Probably not – with all those jazz hands and everything. Glee has the added benefit of promoting acceptance of differing cultural backgrounds, sexual preference, and physical and cognitive ability. Keep it up, Glee!
Tim Tebow. Colorado has pretty much gone crazy for Tim Tebow. I have to admit that I am on the bandwagon, too. Now, I don’t know enough about football to be able to analyze Tebow’s quarterbacking skills, but what I do know is that my mother (never previously a football fan), and 2 young daughters (who still have trouble telling football and basketball apart) all have Tebow Fever. Why? Because of his positive energy and his refusal to say or do the negative things his colleagues often do. He’s grateful, humble, a super hard worker, and I once heard him say “golly” in an interview. Now that’s someone to look up to.
Lady Gaga/Taylor Swift. These two singers are likely not friends, but they embody several things that are important to me in female role models: They are smart, mature, and successful – and they don’t make excuses about it. If you’ve never seen interviews with Ms. Gaga or Ms. Swift, I highly suggest watching one on YouTube. While both are in their twenties, they are poised and well-spoken and know exactly what they are doing with their careers. In addition they are supremely grateful to their fans, and stick up for the underdogs among us. Sing on, ladies!
Who am I missing? Who are your favorite role models?