Shopping is one of those tricky things that can be both good and bad for mental health. On the one hand, shopping can be a fun distraction and excursion with friends. It can also be relaxing when done alone, when you can spend 20 minutes perusing purple necklaces if that’s what you want to do – and with no one bugging you to move on to Cinnabon.
The downside, of course can be that when done to excess, shopping can quickly become out of control and wreak havoc on finances. This time of year can be particularly treacherous when there are so many SALES and DEALS and SAVINGS! It’s tough to resist all these “once-in-a-lifetime” opportunities to save (and spend) money.
With all the pros and cons of shopping in mind, I have decided to do something new this year: make all of my holiday purchases on-line. I have decided to test the theory that on-line shopping will be better for my mental health than mall shopping. Here are the few of the reasons I think this hypothesis is true:
- As I get older I have less patience for crowds and loud noises – both of which are abundant in malls and shopping centers
- When I shop in a brick and mortar store I am super-susceptible to buying things a) I don’t need b) the people I’m buying gifts for don’t want (how many Bath and Body Works products do any of us really need, anyway? ugh)
- I love seeing packages waiting at my front door – silly, but true
- Shopping on-line allows me to be a lot more clever and creative than I am in real life. Google “great gifts for 10 year old boys” and you have more cool, educational AND fun gift ideas than you will ever need
I was recently contacted by Pearl & Clasp about taking a look at some of their earrings. It was meant to be. My online shopping experiment ready to go, together with my LOVE LOVE LOVE for jewelry – we made a perfect pair!
Here’s what arrived on my doorstep (it’s looking good already!):
Darling little (but not-too-little), pink pearl earrings. They are very sweet and would work for an adult or a young girl – not that I will be giving mine away. This online shopping stuff is definitely improving my mental health so far!
Want to do a little shopping of your own? Check out Pearl & Clasp’s holiday deals.