The Picture of Happiness – Gardening

It’s The Picture of Happiness Month!

Today’s guest is Lanae Davis, she says:

Spring time gardening makes me happy!  We love to get our vegetable garden started early indoors, water it and watch the seedlings sprout up.  And when spring arrives, we transplant these seedlings outside to the garden! 

Warm weather + seedlings = happiness for Lanae Davis

Warm weather + seedlings = happiness for Lanae Davis

Lanae Davis M.P.A., is a Research Associate at the Center for Policy Research in Denver, Colorado.  Since 1997, Ms. Davis has worked with numerous State and local government agencies to implement, execute and evaluate innovative strategies to improve the lives of low-income families in Colorado and across the nation.  Ms. Davis has co-authored articles on her research related to employment, re-entry and access and visitation programs that serve low income  parents in Family Court Review, Corrections Today and Child Support Report.  Lanae is a wife and mother to her two beautiful children, Meadow and Kash and lives in Broomfield.  In her free time she loves to enjoy the beautiful Colorado mountains with her family by hiking, skiing and is an avid runner and triathlete.

Lanae Davis M.P.A., is a Research Associate at the Center for Policy Research in Denver, Colorado. Since 1997, Ms. Davis has worked with numerous state and local government agencies to implement, execute and evaluate innovative strategies to improve the lives of low-income families in Colorado and across the nation. Ms. Davis has co-authored articles on her research related to employment, re-entry and access and visitation programs that serve low income parents in Family Court Review, Corrections Today and Child Support Report. Lanae is a wife and mother to her two beautiful children, Meadow and Kash and lives in Broomfield. In her free time she loves to enjoy the beautiful Colorado mountains with her family by hiking, skiing and is an avid runner and triathlete.

The Picture of Happiness – Sunflower

It’s The Picture of Happiness Month!

Today’s guest is Jeannie Hulse.  She says:

Sunflowers remind me of home….I grew up with fields of sunflowers surrounding our home in Nebraska.

For Jeannie Hulse, sunflowers + memories of home = happiness

For Jeannie Hulse, sunflowers + memories of home = happiness

 

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I’ve been a State Farm agent for 12 years and love helping my customers with their insurance and financial needs. I began my career as a junior in high school working for a local State Farm agent and have been in the business ever since.

The Picture of Happiness – The Pool

It’s The Picture of Happiness Month!

Today’s guest is life coach Erin McNeil, she says:

Ahhhh…the neighborhood lap pool.  It’s JUST about to open for the summer.  I wait until all the little ones are eating dinner with their families or getting ready for bed,  I leave my little ones to eat and get ready for bed with their Dad and I sneak on over for an hour.  It is bliss. And happiness.

The neighborhood pool = happiness for Erin McNeil

The neighborhood pool = happiness for Erin McNeil

 

Erin holds a Masters Degree in Social Psychology and has a private practice as a Certified Professional Life Coach.  She loves to swim laps, watch football, quote funny movies, eat candy, laugh with her children and travel.

Erin holds a Masters Degree in Social Psychology and has a private practice as a Certified Professional Life Coach. She loves to swim laps, watch football, quote funny movies, eat candy, laugh with her children and travel.

The Picture of Happiness – Mornings

It’s The Picture of Happiness Month!

Today’s guest is photographer Jenni Lillie, she says:

This photograph is called Joy in the Morning. When there are difficult times in our lives and the darkness seems like it will overtake us, the sun comes back up and at some point there is joy again. Flowers make me happy.

Mornings + flowers = happiness for photographer Jenni Lillie

Mornings + flowers = happiness for photographer Jenni Lillie

Jenni is a wife, mom, photographer and art lover. To check out more of her work, check out her website.

Jenni is a wife, mom, photographer and art lover. To check out more of her work, check out her website.

The Picture of Happiness – Wrapping Gifts

It’s The Picture of Happiness Month!

Today’s guest is Dr. Linda Baker, she says:

I am a full-time clinical psychologist and a part-time jewelry shop owner/refurbisher/photographer at Chainsaw & Co.  I get very excited by the concept and act of gift-giving, which likely explains my insistence on uniquely hand-wrapping each item that is sold.  As I’m wrapping, I imagine the receiver opening their gift and this makes me feel delightfully well-nourished.

Gift-Giving + Hand-Wrapping = Happiness for Dr. Linda Baker

Gift-Giving + Hand-Wrapping = Happiness for Dr. Linda Baker

Linda Baker, PsyD is the owner of Unstuck Therapy, a private psychotherapy and assessment practice in the Capitol Hill neighborhood of Denver.  Unstuck Therapy has been featured on ManTherapy.org and AllTreatment.com highlighting specialty areas including men’s issues, secondary trauma, adolescent mental health, and depression.  These days, Linda enjoys prose, pop culture, fashion, and humans of all varieties.

Linda Baker, PsyD is the owner of Unstuck Therapy, a private psychotherapy and assessment practice in the Capitol Hill neighborhood of Denver. Unstuck Therapy has been featured on ManTherapy.org and AllTreatment.com highlighting specialty areas including men’s issues, secondary trauma, adolescent mental health, and depression. These days, Linda enjoys prose, pop culture, fashion, and humans of all varieties.

The Picture of Happiness – Pieces of Heaven

It’s The Picture of Happiness Month!

Today’s guest is Mandy Baron, she says:

There are lots of things that make me happy, but seeing rays through the clouds is one of my favorites!  It feels like a little piece of heaven is shining down for me.  Sometimes in my crazy chaotic life it is a great reminder to slow down, take a deep breath, and enjoy the beauty all around.   

Sunbeams + reminders to slow down = happiness for Mandy Baron

Sunbeams + reminders to slow down = happiness for Mandy Baron

Mandy Baron is a dental hygienist, wife and mom of three young boys.  She and her family are currently living in Germany.

Mandy Baron is a dental hygienist, wife and mom of three young boys. She and her family are currently living in Germany.

The Picture of Happiness – Traveling

It’s The Picture of Happiness Month!

Today’s guest is Dr. Debbie Sorenson, she says:

Very little gives me as much sense of vitality as the adventure of traveling abroad. My husband and I make a priority of taking a trip to another country every few years if we can. I love researching and planning a trip, learning about new cultures and places, and getting outside of my comfort zone for a while. And I always enjoy having the memories of each trip to carry with me for years to come! This is an iguana I photographed on the beach during my most recent trip abroad, which was to Costa Rica.

Traveling abroad = happiness for Dr. Debbie Sorenson

Traveling abroad = happiness for Dr. Debbie Sorenson

Debbie Sorensen is a clinical psychologist who lives and works in Denver, Colorado. She has one daughter and another one on the way. In addition to travel, she enjoys reading, cooking, and camping.

Dr. Debbie Sorensen is a clinical psychologist who lives and works in Denver, Colorado. She has one daughter and another one on the way. In addition to travel, she enjoys reading, cooking, and camping.

The Picture of Happiness – Running

It’s The Picture of Happiness month!

Today’s guest is Dr. Amy Greenamyer, she says:

This picture is of my medals from 3 full marathons and 8 half marathons. It makes me happy to look at these because of words that have echoed in my head since I was 11-years-old.  As the middle school track coach cut me from the team on the second day of practice, he said, “You are too slow to be a sprinter, too short to jump, and can’t run worth a crap for any distance.” I gave up on ever being an athlete after that.

In late November 2006, my friend JJ suggested we run a marathon. I laughed at her. I told her I “couldn’t” run and had “proof” in the form of my former coach’s assessment. She laughed at me and told me to start training with her. Knowing my friend, resistance was futile. So, I started to train.

There were points in that first marathon, and in every race since, that I wanted to quit, puke, die or all three. But, JJ helped keep me going. My family and multitudes of strangers along the course helped me keep going. And, oddly enough, my track coach helped me keep going; I had to prove him wrong. Crossing the finish line was pure bliss! Everything on me hurt. My toenails later fell out. I smelled. But, in that final step over the line, I became a marathoner. An athlete.

Now I have a wall full of medals and feel the same delight and pride as I cross the finish line. I’m not fast—in order for my finish times to qualify for the Boston Marathon I’d have to be 90 years old. I walk sometimes, or a lot of the time, depending on the race. But I finish. And I smile every time I do.

Proving old coaches wrong + inspiration from a friend = happiness for Dr. Amy Greenamyer

Proving an old coach wrong + inspiration from a friend + running a marathon = happiness for Dr. Amy Greenamyer

 Amy Greenamyer is a licensed psychologist and co-owner of Green Line Wellness in Louisville, Kentucky. She and her husband are the proud parents of a daughter and son. They also have a rescued dog who is now a therapy dog at Amy’s practice.


Amy Greenamyer is a licensed psychologist and co-owner of Green Line Wellness in Louisville, Kentucky. She and her husband are the proud parents of a daughter and son. They also have a rescue dog who is now a therapy dog at Amy’s practice.

The Picture of Happiness – Imperfect Seashells and Beautiful Friends

It’s The Picture of Happiness Month!

Today’s guest is Karyn Dundorf, she says:

Lately, I have come to realize that there is much beauty to be found in the imperfect.  I recently went on a trip to Clearwater, FL for a reunion of some college friends.  Instead of one of the myriad of pictures of perfect sunsets, white sand beaches, or (other people) in bikinis, I am posting a picture of a broken shell.  My friends and I are not nearly as fresh and perfect as we seemed when were 18 year-olds full of idealism and wonder.  Life has happened.  We have more wrinkles and less idealism but more wisdom and depth.  I found each of my friends more beautiful and precious than I used to.  It’s funny, I’m able to see the beauty in them, but it’s much harder to look at my own “failings” with any love.  I kept this broken shell of a reminder that there is true beauty that comes out of brokenness.  I look at the shell every day and when I do, I think of my beautiful friends.  It is a reminder to treasure people, including myself, as they are instead of what/where they are “supposed” to be.

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Wise friends + life’s imperfections = happiness for Karyn Dundorf

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Karyn is a once engineer, now stay at home mom to three kids 6 and under in Boulder, Colorado.

Happiness: Easier to Find Than We Think?

I am writing this post as part of The American Psychological Association’s Mental Health Blog Day. #MHBlogDay

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Sometimes it can feel as if true happiness is elusive.  Between the stresses of work, relationships, parenting, money and all the other goings on in the world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, sad, angry and just plain fed up.  I’m not questioning the reality of the stressors listed above, and I’m certainly not doubting the very real effects of mental illness on mood.  However, I do think we – at least sometimes – tend to make happiness more complicated than it has to be.

I have dedicated the month of May as The Picture of Happiness Month on this blog.  I have invited women from all parts of my life to share a picture of what makes them happy.  The catch? The pictures can’t include family, pets or lovers.  What I’ve discovered (about halfway through the month) is that just as we all look different and choose different paths for our lives, the things that bring us happiness are different too.

True, lasting happiness and contentment might be elusive for many of us; but momentary joy and pleasure are within almost everyone’s reach.

Take a look at some Pictures of Happiness:

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Screen shot 2014-05-13 at 6.01.04 PMScreen shot 2014-05-14 at 8.44.35 AMWant to see more Pictures of Happiness? Follow along on Dr Stephanie this month, or check it out on Facebook or Twitter.

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